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edited November -1 in General Discussion
i need some help real quick.

alex (my bf) is really good friends with this girl and im totally fine with that because most of my friends are guys. any ways since me and alex have been goin out i have been feelin like she likes alex. one of my friends actually thought he dumped me and was goin out with her, because of how she acts around him. any ways she sent me this song through aim and as soon as it was done bein sent she signed off. she told me to listen to the lyrics real closely. well thease are the lyrics.
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"Fake"

I can't stand the sight of you
I can't stand what you put me through
Your life's a lie, that you hide
Is it that terrible being you inside?
I can't stand, oh, the thought of you
I can't stand all the things you do
What do you try to justify?
You were just too scared to be you inside
Let!
It all go

(I look) at you, all I see, is a man too afraid to really be

I can't stand what you put me through
I can't stand even the thought of you
Your secret lies that you hide
Is it that terrible being you inside?

You try so hard to be wanted
-False emotions tells you fronted
I feel being a person relies on one thing:
Be yourself, let you come through
you're too afraid to really be
Someone who isn't false, who dosen't care to be
Be yourself, let you come through!

Fake!
-You'll regret it, you'll regret it


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shes nice to me some days and not nice on others. she seems to bee really jelous of me or something and its as if she is callin me fake. alex doesnt really think she is tryin to be mean, but thats because he doesnt see what shes doin. hes a guy.. how could he... so i dont know what to do. she makes me cry because shes so much prettier than me and lives closer to him so they can spend more time together, and they do. i cry because sometimes when im thinkin too hard about it i think that he could dump me for her.

i need a second opinion so tell me what you think.
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  • I think you should talk to her and Alex about it. Confront her and ask why she is treating you like this, but don't sound mean about it. If she confesses about liking Alex, then go to your boyfriend and see what he says about this.

    Someone on hear probably has better advice then I do. At least I tried to be helpful; I've never been in a situation like this.
  • ive alreay confronted alex with 3 of my friends who aggreed with me. if i ask her she will deny it. everyone says so....
  • step 1: buy brass knuckles.
    step 2: punch boyfriend stealing slut in the face
    step 3: repeat step 2 as needed.
  • that sounds like a good plan
    i worked up some muscle playin air hockey too.
  • QUOTE (GirlInTheDark @ Oct 30 2005, 09:21 PM)
    ive alreay confronted alex with 3 of my friends who aggreed with me. if i ask her she will deny it. everyone says so....



    It wouldn't hurt to ask her. And if you do go to ask her, go alone. She will definitely deny it if you bring other people with you, but if you two are alone, she might not.

    If it gets really really bad, take Dave's advice.
  • lol i have no money to buy brass knuckels..
  • QUOTE (GirlInTheDark @ Oct 30 2005, 10:26 PM)
    lol i have no money to buy brass knuckels..

    a brick or a large rock would be a nice substitute... and they're free wink.gif
  • you should throw a salami sandwich.
  • ^^.. but i still dont really know what to doo. ive done basically what you all have said. accept the beating her with a stick.
  • i agreee
    talk to her. online if you have to.
  • she has only signed on and off quically so far.. probaly just to see if im online.
  • QUOTE (w00t @ Oct 30 2005, 10:27 PM)
    a brick or a large rock would be a nice substitute... and they're free wink.gif



    a sack full of doorknobs
  • ive only had 3 bfs and i really really like alex. ive never been with anyone as long as i have been with him. and shes ruining it all! for me atleast. alex is oblivious.
  • QUOTE (Jaded @ Oct 30 2005, 08:25 PM)
    It wouldn't hurt to ask her.  And if you do go to ask her, go alone.  She will definitely deny it if you bring other people with you, but if you two are alone, she might not.

    If it gets really really bad, take Dave's advice.



    first off... eeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwww salami bleh! ANYWHO... second... Jaded has a good point there lol... and dave too mellow.gif ... but if you ARE going to ask her if she likes your bo... take a tape recorder and tape the convo in secret... that way you have proof... also all the bad or shitty things she has done or sent to you show them to your boyfriend... get proof then confront... and make your boyfriend SEE what's really going on.... oh and if you talk to her online... save the convo so when you show it to your bo or whomever it'll be authentic because well her username is there and whatnot.. yadayada... BUT if she is TRYING to steal him from you.... well in my case I'd confront her and if needed beat the shit out of her LOL but I hate fights so if she tried to hit me I'd knock her lights out... ANYWHOOOOOOOOOO.... plan things out though.. talk to her, record, have someone listen to the convo, show boyfriend, if she denies it bring out the proof, if she cries than she deserves it cuz she's being a bitch about yoru relationship with him... AAAAAAAND do it nicely... say... look I confronted you about it, I told Alex WAY before you had to make me get proof of what you're really like, and what you are trying to do to our relationship.... so if I hurt you embarraced you in any way.. you brought it upon yourself... I'm just trying to get the truth out, because I don't want people to paste me as a liar and a jealous wench (maybe not wench lol).

    And if by ANY chance... which I hope doesn't happen... Alex breaks up with you it's because he's a blind idiot of a fool!!!! And I'll kick his stupid kid ass if you want me to.
  • well recording a "real" convo with her might send out a "crazy person" message to your b/f...

    i am sure he is aware of whats going on...boys arnt that stupid....how long have they been friends?

    you cant stop people being friends with each other just because you love them, talk to alex tell him how its upseting you that you think shes trying to break you up..ask him if he likes her...he wouldnt be going out with you if he liked her like that would he?
  • yea im not gona tape the convo. someone told me today that shes always talkin about alex's cousin so yea i hope she does really like him and not my sweet alex ^^

    i sorta avoided her all day. i didnt look at her at all. ^^
  • QUOTE (Head Full of Crazy @ Oct 31 2005, 08:43 AM)
    well recording a "real" convo with her might send out a "crazy person" message to your b/f...
    THANK YOU. Sorry, Pearl, but that is crazy if it's not to prove a dangerous situation and probably not even legal without permission.

    But anyway, Girl. My advice to you IS to avoid people if you don't like what they're doing. If they bother you, then don't bother with them if it can be helped. Your time is precious and so are you. Now try and remember that...K, luv?
  • QUOTE (Pearl @ Oct 31 2005, 04:12 PM)
    And if by ANY chance... which I hope doesn't happen... Alex breaks up with you it's because he's a blind idiot of a fool!!!! And I'll kick his stupid kid ass if you want me to.


    Yeah if he breaks up with you (Not that he will, 'cause you're such a great person, and she's a bitch), I'll help Pearl beat him to death if you'd like


    *Fangs*
  • three cheers for sweet revenge
  • ^^ nice mcr transitition.

    lol giggleguy i kno u would give revenge for me lol.

    im ok with her now and everythings peachy tho. i handeld it. ^^
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