Wow, that really sucks The majority of my friends are bi/gay but they are genuine. That and in some cases I'm the only person who knows, my school is filled with chavs who'll never let it rest if you come out.
I'm not sure which is worse -faking it, or being forced to hide it.
I say faking it is worse. I mean, I understand why people hide their true sexuality when they're bi/gay on account of the persecution and lack of understanding you can experience from family/friends/society in general. I just don't understand why someone would pretend to be bi/gay. My guess is that they think it's all glamourous 'cause of the attention they get from the opposite sex when they hook up with the same sex and they don't take the experiences of real bi/gay people into account. I mean, coming to terms with being bi/gay ain't easy. I think I find it insulting, IDK. I'm rambling now. We've totally hijacked Ians thread.
I say faking it is worse. I mean, I understand why people hide their true sexuality when they're bi/gay on account of the persecution and lack of understanding you can experience from family/friends/society in general. I just don't understand why someone would pretend to be bi/gay. My guess is that they think it's all glamourous 'cause of the attention they get from the opposite sex when they hook up with the same sex and they don't take the experiences of real bi/gay people into account. I mean, coming to terms with being bi/gay ain't easy. I think I find it insulting, IDK. I'm rambling now. We've totally hijacked Ians thread.
I can't always tell who's pretending to be bi or gay or whatever. I mean, I know a kid who's gay, and I'm pretty sure he came out because it was becoming a trend and he felt comfortable enough to finally do it.
I think most people who say that they're gay are truly gay or bi. those who say they're bi either seriously think they are or, like you said, just like the attention and the freedom of it.
I have friends who make out with each other, but they all have steady boyfriends and they don't claim to be bi or anything.
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I'm not sure which is worse -faking it, or being forced to hide it.
I say faking it is worse. I mean, I understand why people hide their true sexuality when they're bi/gay on account of the persecution and lack of understanding you can experience from family/friends/society in general. I just don't understand why someone would pretend to be bi/gay. My guess is that they think it's all glamourous 'cause of the attention they get from the opposite sex when they hook up with the same sex and they don't take the experiences of real bi/gay people into account. I mean, coming to terms with being bi/gay ain't easy. I think I find it insulting, IDK. I'm rambling now. We've totally hijacked Ians thread.
I can't always tell who's pretending to be bi or gay or whatever. I mean, I know a kid who's gay, and I'm pretty sure he came out because it was becoming a trend and he felt comfortable enough to finally do it.
I think most people who say that they're gay are truly gay or bi. those who say they're bi either seriously think they are or, like you said, just like the attention and the freedom of it.
I have friends who make out with each other, but they all have steady boyfriends and they don't claim to be bi or anything.
Seriously, its kinda cool to be bisexual now. Like, half the emo/scene/whatever populaiton of my school is now bi (and/or gay). it annoys me.
i have no problam with gay/bi people
i just dont want them stalking me online is all!
i just dont want them stalking me online is all!
Do you enjoy being stalked by straight people
or if they are cute
or if they are cute
Well that's just common courtesy isn't it.